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In the Club 12/23/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed.

We made it, friends. It’s (almost) the end of the year and our final In the Club newsletter of 2020! I would be remiss if I didn’t take the time to thank you all for rocking with me for another year of book clubbing, even if said year did look very, very different than any of us predicted it would back in January. I’d like to wrap up the year with a few brief observations and pieces of advice that I hope we can all take with us as we move into 2021.

Happy Holidays, everyone! Stay safe, hydrated, moisturized, and snackified. I will talk to you all in January when the club resumes with more nibbles, sips, and tips.

To the club!!


Wisdom from the Club

The Club Goes Online

The pandemic rained on just about everyone’s parade as far as gatherings are involved, but book clubs persisted. Some kept things safe with a tiny, socially distanced quaranteam, but lots of you took the club chatter online (hellooo Zoom!). I think many of us have wavered in our capacity to Zoom/Facetime, etc, but I’ve found I still look forward to those chats when they feel low-stakes. If you’re still Zooming, try to create a casual and welcoming environment, the kind where it’s cool if someone didn’t finish or even read the book and just wants to spend some time with fellow book people.

If you don’t have an established book club, find one! If online clubs from celebrities (Reese Witherspoon, Bellerist, the OG Oprah) or news outlets and media companies (Today, Good Morning America, LA Times, Bustle), aren’t your thing, try Instagram book clubs with other “regular” book people. or apps like MeetUp to find locals. Check out these and other tips here.

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Libraries and Bookstores Save the Day

Speaking of online book clubs, our favorite institutions went above and beyond to create online spaces for book lovers. Not being able to host in-person groups was surely a bummer, but they made do with a robust offering of online book clubs. If you haven’t tried one out, give it a go! Check out the online events calendar for your local indie, library, or chain bookstore—I for one have my eye on Lovin’ at Loyalty Book Club, a monthly romance book club run by Loyalty Book Store where author Alyssa Cole is a regular! I participated in a few of these and it helped me feel less isolated while living alone in a city that’s still pretty new to me.

Take A Little Space

Another lesson I learned during this wild, wild year is that the act of reading itself was touch and go for a lot of us. Some readers finished more books this year than they have in years, or ever! Some of us DNFed every other book, read at a snail’s pace, or had a tough time picking up books at all. If you haven’t already embraced this idea, let me be the one to say it: it’s okay to change the frequency of book club, to skip a month, or to just bow out of book clubs until you’re ready. As readers, we often feel pressured to always stay reading, but news flash: it’s okay if you can’t.

Variety is the Spice of Life

This is a simple concept, but one that you may not have thought to incorporate: change up the types of books you usually read in book club if your members feel like they’re in a rut. If you usually stick to litfic, try a mystery or a romance. Take a break from nonfiction and pick up a comic or graphic novel. Try some kids books if you haven’t read those in awhile! Mix it up however you see fit.

Switch It Up

Remember how I said some of us have had trouble reading? Here’s a secret: it’s okay to rebrand book club! Maybe use your book club time to try painting or knitting as a group, or have a cocktails and craft night. Bring back my favorite cooking night idea and make a dish together over Zoom. Do whatever feels good; the books will always be there when you’re ready to come back to them.


And that’s a wrap! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 12/16/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. Last week I hit you with a quick list of my picks for the best book club books of 2020 and promised to have a follow-up list for you this week. I hath delivered! Let’s dive right in because I got a wee bit excited.

To the club!!


Nibbles and Sips

The quaranteam and I had our Friendmas gathering this weekend and I made this ridiculously delicious burrata with lemon pepper salami. It’s SO simple, I’m talking 10 minutes tops with a whopping five minutes of actual “cooking.” The key is definitely to bring the burrata to room temp (do not skip this step!), drizzle the infused oil on top while warm, and use a good salami (I recommend Calabrese for some kick). Scoop up some of the gooey cheese with a crusty piece of bread and a slice of salami, then luxuriate in that creamy, salty, spicy, lemony bite. Your taste buds with do the conga, trust.

More Best, A Little Less Buzz

A quick interwebs search for the best book club books of 2020 will almost surely contain the books I shared with you last week as well as titles like Caste by Isabel Wilkerson, Deacon King Kong by James McBride, Luster by Raven Leilani, and tons of anti-racist lit. I don’t want to take anything away from those books, all of which come highly recommended, and anti-racist reads 100% need to be an ongoing part of our conversations and not just a trendy flash in the pan. With that being said, this week I’m focusing on the slightly less buzzy titles worthy of book club inclusion. You may recognize some or all of these titles as folks who engage with the online book community, but they aren’t necessarily getting as much attention, especially in this helluva year, as they should.

The Lost Book of Adana Moreau by Michael Zapata

This novel opens in in 1929 in New Orleans. Adana Moreau has written a work of science fiction about a young Dominican immigrant in search of a lost city, a young woman not unlike herself. The book is a success, so Adana begins to write a sequel only to destroy it when she suddenly becomes ill. Decades later in Chicago, Saul is cleaning out the home of his recently deceased grandfather when he finds the not-so-destroyed-after-all manuscript of Adana’s sequel. How and why does this manuscript exist? Why does his grandfather have it? Saul finds himself in New Orleans in the thick of Katrina in search of answers.

Sharks in the Time of Saviors by Kawai Strong Washburn

More than a few of my book friends have named this as one of their favorite books of the year. Book Riot’s own Amanda Nelson described it as a “groundbreaking debut novel that folds the legends of Hawaiian gods into an engrossing family saga; a story of exile and the pursuit of salvation.” This might have to be one of my holiday break reads.

A Children’s Bible by Lydia Millet

This novel is a searing commentary on climate change with some major Lord of the Flies vibes. A group of kids and teens are spending the summer at a lakeside mansion where their parents largely ignore them in their booze, drugs, and sex-induced stupor. When a massive storm descends on the estate, the kids—led by ringleader and narrator Eve—run away into the apocalyptic chaos outside, one of them with a children’s bible in tow. As they seek refuge in an abandoned farm house, the events in the pages of the bible begin to bleed into real life.

Disfigured: On Fairy Tales, Disability, and Making Space by Amanda Leduc

You, like me, might kinda think you already know that the fairy tales of the West have major ableist tones, but reading this book really just circles all that’s wrong with those depictions in bright red ink. Able-bodied privilege has kept many of us from thinking critically about the implications of ableist messaging in these beloved stories, from Brothers Grimm to Hans Christian Andersen to the Disney machine. Think about it. The villains are either disfigured in some way or disability is their punishment for being evil. The princesses and princes who find love aren’t ever disabled, or if they are, it’s only after their hideous disfigurement has been shaken off that they find love. Are you cringing? You should be cringing. This #ownvoices book is one I wish I could hand out on the streets.

Never Look Back by Lilliam Rivera

Never Look Back is a YA retelling of the Orpheus and Eurydice myth by my beloved Lilliam Rivera, the author who won me all the way over in Dealing in Dreams when she named the girl gang in the book “Las Malcriadas.” This reimagining is set in the Bronx and features a cast of Afro-Latinx characters. If you like Pri-de by Iii Zoboi or mythology remixes in general, this book will be right up your alley.

All Boys Aren’t Blue: A Memoir- Manifesto by George M. Johnson

George M. Johnson is a journalist and LGBTQIA+ activist and this is his young-adult memoir. It chronicles his childhood, adulthood, and college years in New Jersey and Virginia while examining gender identity, toxic masculinity, brotherhood, family, structural marginalization, consent, and—this is so important—Black joy. It’s meant to be both a primer for teens who want to be allies and a testimony for young queer men of color. As I’ve said before, toxic masculinity exists in all kinds of communities and I wish more people would take a moment to examine that reality.

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Winter Counts by David Heska Wanbli Weiden

This thriller follows Virgil Wounded Horse, a vigilante enforcer on the Rosebud Indian Reservation in South Dakota. When the legal system fails to bring justice to his community, Virgil takes matters into his own hands. His mission gets even more personal when heroin infiltrates the reservation and finds Virgil’s nephew.

Confession: I thought that was a giant rat on the cover wearing a fur coat, like maybe the Rat King from the Nutcracker or something? Wow, Diaz: when you’re wrong, you’re the most wrong. I’m so ashamed!

Blacktop Wasteland by S.A. Cosby

This thriller is a big time Book Riot favorite and has started to make a lot of the “best of” lists, but I’m still including it because it’s a debut and I want to keep that momentum going. Bug is a family man doing his best to provide for his wife and kids, but life hasn’t exactly dealt him a lucky hand: his garage is struggling, he’s not making ends meet, and now his elderly mother is facing eviction from her nursing home. In a bid for some fast cash, he steps back into a familiar role as a getaway driver, a job he left a long time ago. He goes into it with that “just one more job!” mentality we’ve heard before, pero… ya know. I’ve lost count of how many people have told me that a particular car chase scene in this book is one of the most thrilling and intense scenes they’ve read in a long time.

Hurricane Season by Fernanda Melchor, translated by Sophie Hughes

I always preface this recommendation with the disclaimer that this book is not for the faint of heart. Real talk: I had to put it down because it just contains all the triggers. For those who can handle a darker read and are looking for fic in translation, I want to keep spreading the word about this rising star in Mexican literature. After the death of the town witch in a small Mexican village, the investigation that follows reveals some dark truths about the unreliable inhabitants of its community. Fernanda Melchor isn’t here to mince words; she’s here to shine a white hot light on the ways this community, much like very real communities in Mexico, has been ravaged by drug abuse, poverty, alcoholism, homophobia, and misogyny.

If I Had Your Face by Frances Cha

This story set in contemporary Seoul tells the connected stories of four women: one whose many cosmetic procedures have landed her a job at one of Seoul’s “room salons” where wealthy men seek drink and the entertainment of women; a New York art school graduate who’s returned to Seoul and now has a super rich Korean boyfriend; a hair stylist obsessed with K-pop and her best friend’s plans for some pretty extreme cosmetic surgery; and a newlywed struggling to conceive who’s actually unsure if she can really afford to raise a child. Class issues, patriarchy, inequality, crippling beauty standards: what I’m saying is there’s lots to discuss.

A Phoenix First Must Burn: Sixteen Stories of Black Girl Magic, Resistance, and Hope edited by Patrice Caldwell

Patrice Caldwell took a whole bunch of Black girl magic and bottled it all up in one convenient and beautiful volume. This stellar list of contributors includes Elizabeth Acevedo, Dhonielle Clayton, L.L. McKinney, Ibi Zoboi, and Justina Ireland. Their gorgeous stories center Black women and gender nonconforming individuals through tales of fantasy, science fiction, and magic.

The Five: The Untold Lives of the Women Killed by Jack the Ripper by Hallie Rubenhold

True crime and I have an uneasy relationship: there is definitely such a thing as thoughtful examination of crime, but a lot of what I encounter when the murder of women is involved feels to me more like gross sensationalizing and trauma porn. That’s why I love the premise of this book, which chooses to focus less on the killer (Jack the Ripper, you may have heard of him) and instead gives the victims a voice. It tells their stories rather than just reducing them to a pile of bodies, an angle I am very here for.


That’s all for today! See you all next week. Can you believe this is the second to last In the Club newsletter of 2020?! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 12/09/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. It’s that time, friends: let’s talk best book club books of the year! In truth I have too many to put in one newsletter, so I’m making it a two parter. 2020 was hot basura in so many ways, but it’s books were top notch.

To the club!!


Nibbles and Sips

My fellow Rioters introduced me to the concept of “totchos” early on in the pandemic: it’s nachos, but with tater tots. I made a batch of these on a rainy day last week and mmmm. Tastes like comfort.

There are a ton of ways to do this, of course, but the version I made included a layer of crispy tots followed by a layer of Trader Joe’s Cuban-style black beans, soyrizo, and of course: lots of melty cheese. I topped it off with a hit of sour cream and green onions. Easy, quick, cheap, and muy tasty.

Enjoy!

Best Book Club Books of 2020 – Part I

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Such a Fun Age by Kiley Reid

This book came out at the very end of 2020 in a move I still don’t 100% understand, so I’m including it in this year’s lineup because it’s such a good convo starter. Alix, a white woman who’s made a career as an influencer, hires Amira, a twenty-something Black woman, to be her young daughter’s babysitter. A surprising connection from Alix’ past and Amira’s present threatens to undo them both. This is a funny, thoughtful read about race and privilege that I don’t think gets enough shine, one that really dives into that whole “the road to hell is paved with good intentions” thing.

The Vanishing Half by Brit Bennett

This multi-generational story takes us from the Deep South to California and spans the 50s to the 90s. We meet identical twin sisters who are inseparable at birth but go on to lead entirely different lives. One sister eventually goes on to live with her Black daughter in that same town she tried to escape, and the other is passing as white and married to a white man who has no idea that she is Black.They’re separated by just as many miles as lies, but their fates intertwine again when their daughters’ own storylines intersect against all odds.

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Transcendent Kingdom by Yaa Gyasi

Gifty is a Ghanian American PhD candidate in neuroscience at Stanford Med where she’s studying depression and addiction by observing the reward-seeking behavior of mice. This work is very personal: she was just a kid when her athlete brother Nana injured his ankle during a high school basketball game and then got hooked on the Oxycontin he was prescribed. After spiraling in his addiction and relapsing almost immediately after a stint in rehab, Nana overdosed on heroine and died. Gifty turns to science to understand Nana’s addiction and the depth of her family’s loss. She also finds herself pulled in by the allure of salvation offered by the faith she thought she’d long abandoned.

Cemetery Boys by Aiden Thomas

I love this book so much, that is no secret. The reason I love it for book club is the way the book approaches/discusses gendered magic. Yadriel is a trans boy who wants more than anything for his super traditional Latinx family to accept him as a man. To prove that he’s a brujo, he performs the sacred coming-of-age ritual wherein brujx come into their powers; with the help of his BFF cousin, he uses his powers to summon the ghost of his murdered cousin and set it free. Prero….. the ghost he summons isn’t his cousin. His name is Julian, he refuses to leave, and he’s what I’ve affectingly dubbed a Hottie McGuapo. The book is inspired by lots of different Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) rituals and is full of Spanish much to my heart’s delight. It’s a sweet, funny and romantic read with great conversation potential.

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Hood Feminism by Mikki Kendall

Black women show up for literally everybody; do we show up for them? Feminism must be intersectional. Period. The sort of prettily photographed stuff you so often see in your Instagram feed leaves Black women behind, concerning itself not with basic survival for the many, but on increasing privilege for the few. If your approach to feminism ain’t inclusive, it’s trash, and this book dives into that idea unflinchingly.

When No One is Watching by Alyssa Cole

I stand by this advice all these months later: go into this book knowing as little about as possible! Just trust that you’re in good hands, prepare for side-eye, and go forth! It’ll terrify you for reasons that I can’t divulge without entering spoiler territory, but if I can handle it, you can. And like I said before, Alyssa Cole has a whole catalog of wonderful romance novels for you if you do need a palate cleanser when you’re done.

Mexican Gothic by Silvia Moreno Garcia

How many times have I raved about t his twisty, unsettling creeper of a book!? Fashionable Mexico City socialite Noemi receives a cryptic letter from her newly-wed cousin Catalina begging to be rescued. Noemi heads to High Place, the creepy ol’ house set in the mountains of Hidalgo where Catalina lives to see what, if anything, she can do. Virgil, Catalina’s English husband, says it’s tuberculosis that lead his wife to write that nonsensical letter, but Noemi isn’t buying that mess. What begins as a slow, simmering uneasiness boils into full blown disturbia as Noemi discovers the secrets hidden in High Place. If you liked the movie Get Out, this has that same something-is-so-wrong-but-gawd-what-is-it vibe that builds up to some serious WTFery. (CW: references to sexual assault and I cannot stress this enough: body horror. Sorry ’bout the mushrooms.)

Stay tuned for more “best of” next week!


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 12/2/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. I took a look at the calendar today and realized we only four newsletters left in 2020! My brain is equal parts stunned by that fact and hopped up on peppermint bark.

The next few newsletters will likely be of a “best of” or “year in review,” variety, but today we’re going to talk about wintry reads. I’d call them cozy, but there’s some murder thrown in there—you know, for good measure.

To the club!!


Nibbles and Sips

Today I’m hitting you with the most basic, ridiculously simple “recipe.” I’m almost ashamed to call it that, but it’s one of my faves!

  • Step 1: Procure a tub of really good vanilla or sweet cream ice cream (chocolate works too if that’s what you’re craving). Let it sit on the counter for a few minutes to soften up.
  • Step 2: Grab a bunch of candy canes and stick them in a Ziplock or fancy reusable bag.
  • Step 3: Bring all of your frustrations, anger, and existential dread to the surface. Feel it? Good. Proceed.
  • Step 4: Use all that rage to blast those candy canes into smithereens. Smash ’em! Smash ’em good!
  • Step 5: Mix the candy cane smashy bits into your ice cream and enjoy your candy cane ice cream!

Tis the Season – For me, December reading is all about chilly reads, magical books, or a combo of the two. Here are a few that fit the bill.

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Half Spent Was the Night by Ami McKay

I have been wanting to own a witchy tea shop since reading The Witches of New York last year and waited a full year to read its sequel during the holidays! As Beatrice, Eleanor, and Adelaide roast chestnuts and melt lead to see their fates, a series of odd messengers come a-callin’ with invitations for each of them. The invites are to an NYE masquerade hosted by a mysterious woman they’ve never met. Who is this woman? Is this a grand and generous gesture or a trap? The witches don their most decadent finery and head for the ball to find out. I do think you should read these in order, so go back and read the first book if you haven’t, then travel to Gilded-Age New York with this treat of a story in the tradition of Victorian winter tales.

Book club bonus: Yes, this book revolves around an enchanted and magical evening, but the women are still witches and thus are walking targets. Talk about the importance of their friendship as a tool for deflecting the accusations and cruelty that are an ever-present part of their world.

Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead by Olga Tokarczuk

I told you this list wan’t going to be all feel-good books and this literary mystery is precisely why. Janina is a reclusive woman in a remote Polish village who minds the homes of well-to-do Polish residents who’ve left town for the brutally cold winter. When a neighbor’s suspicious death is followed by several other equally suspicious deaths, Janina insists that the killings have been at the hands (hooves? paws?) of animals enacting vigilante justice on the vile men who hunted them. The book doesn’t ask who dunnit, but instead asks why. Again, not a “cozy” read in the traditional sense, but the cold just leaps off the page and feels apropos for winter reading.

Book club bonus: There’s no shortage of topics to unpack here, but I like to focus on the roles of empathy, ageism, and man’s impact on the natural world are portrayed.

The Midnight Bargain by C.L. Polk

Winter makes me crave all things magical and this is one of my favorite magical reads of 2020. In a world reminiscent of Regency England, Beatrice Claybourn wants nothing more than to practice magic as a profession. But women don’t get to do that sort of thing; in fact, they’re fitted with a collar that cuts off their powers as soon as soon they’re wed. Beatrice locates a rare grimoire that will help grant her wish to do magic, but another sorceress takes the book right out from under her. Beatrice sets out get the grimoire back and catches major feelings for the stealing sorceress’ hottie brother in the process. Soon she’s faced with an impossible choice: does she give into love, wed this lovely man, and in doing so save her family from destitution at the cost of her hopes and dreams? Or does she follow her heart and turn her back on everyone she loves?

Book club bonus: Did you catch the part about the collar? Could that, I dunno, be a symbol? C.L. Polk is saying big things about the repression and subjugation of women and I am here for all of it. Discuss.

Christmas Kisses by Farrah Rochon

I came across this collection of Christmas tales while looking up Farrah Rochon’s catalog after falling in love with The Boyfriend Project. The stories in this collection whisk us off to a rustic Italian village and a luxury ski resort in Colorado for some holiday romance. I would love to read this with a buddy this winter, if for no other reason that to gush about brown and Black love.

Book club bonus: This year has been a rollercoaster in my reading life, but one thing I learned for sure is how healing it is to take a break from reading about trauma. Those kinds of reads are important too, no doubt. But for real though: people deserve to read about joy. Crack that nut open in book club!

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Jenna Bush Hager selects Toni Morrison’s The Bluest Eye for her December book club pick.

POPSUGAR announces the winners of the 2020 POPSUGAR Book Club Awards

Some book club news from my adopted state: the University of Oregon’s Deconstructing Whiteness Working Group invites faculty members to participate in a book club focused on the intersections of disability and other marginalized identities. I hope more higher education spaces are creating spaces to examine ableism, racism, homophobia, etc.


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 11/25/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. It’s the day before Thanksgiving here in the states, so… not sure how many of you are even reading this? There’s a good chance it’s just me, my internationals, and a couple of crickets this week. That’s okay! The club doesn’t close just because a bunch of gobble birds are being carved.

I am however going to keep it kinda chill today with the format. Instead of my usual ramblings, I’m going to hit you all with a quick little gift guide for book clubs. Below you’ll find a roundup of bookish gift suggestions, all priced at $25 or less. Happy gifting, friends! Stay safe and have a Happy Thanksgiving.

To the club!!


Tis the season for bookish ornaments! Gift your club buddies a memento of another year in book club friendship. $14

Here’s a snuggly tee for me the tea-drinking bookworm in your life. $11

If a tattoo feels a little extreme (no judgement though!), wear your book club pride with this snazzy vinyl sticker. $3

Listen, we’re all going to need a few more face masks this winter. Now you and your friends can be safe, bookish, and cute! $7

You may remember this from last week. I love it so much! Whip up a batch of baked goods with this, err, stamp of approval! $10

2021 is looming just around the corner! Gift your book buddy a brand new reading journal to start the year off fresh. $25

Raise a mug to books, wine, and survival! $18

More! Masks! $7

I’ve been judged for using a teabag as a bookmark, and to that I say HA! Pick up a few of these for your tea lovers and spare them that judgement. $7

How adorable are these bookish planner stickers? A steal at just $5

For even more bookish gifts galore, check out Book Riot’s big beautiful 2020 holiday gift guide.


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 11/18/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. Today’s newsletter was either inspired by a deep appreciation for the ways in which my friends have added to the quality of my life this year, or by listening to a little too much 90s R&B over the weekend while I meal prepped. Either way, we’re talking about friends this week: the good, the bad, the complex, the consistent. All of it!

To the club!!


Nibbles and Sips—and Gifts

So listen: I love Christmas. It’s a whole big obsessive thing. And since 2020 has taken so much from us all, I feel justified in bypassing the whole disease-bearing-pilgrims-and-their-gobble-birds-day thing and going all in on the Christmas decor and gift planning NOW. For starters, I’m putting together some goodie bags and mailing those out to my book club friends next week. Cookies are definitely going in those packages thanks to this new toy. Hehe.

What About Your Frieeeeeeends

Who are our real friends? What does friendship even mean? What happens when we outgrow a friendship? Is friendship unconditional? These are some of the themes to unpack as you go through these reads with friendship at their core. Discuss!

Never Let Me Go by Kazuo Ishiguro

Kathy is 31 and looking back on her time spent at Hailsham, an idyllic and secluded boarding school in the English countryside. It’s here that she developed a close friendship with two other students, Ruth and Tommy. As she uncovers some startling realities about their shared pasts, she also realizes the full truth of what Hailsham was. (This one is from my TBR and seriously- why haven’t I read this?! Suspense! Boarding school! English countryside! Complicated friendships! Let me pull up this Libby app…)

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Six of Crows by Leigh Bardugo

I love me a good heist, and this book is sort of like if the crew from The Italian Job were a little younger and lived in a dark, magical world called Ketterdam. Our six uniquely skilled and dangerous outcasts include a thief, a spy, a runaway, a sharpshooter, a Heartrender, and convict with a thirst for revenge. Together they’ll work to pull off the mother of all heists—if they don’t kill each other first.

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The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai

I briefly mentioned this book last week as an and told you all to keep the tissues at the ready. I meant it!! This absolutely heartbreaking story of love, tragedy, and the redemptive power of friendship is set both in Chicago amidst the AIDS crisis and in contemporary Paris. I wanted so badly to hop into those pages and hug the main character until he told me to stop!

The Boyfriend Project by Farrah Rochon

Sneaking this one in one more time! There’s a whole lot to love about this book: an exploration of the role of race and gender in workplace dynamics, a look at the Black woman’s experience in STEM; a depiction of self-assured and empowered women who know their worth (and when to say no to catfishing f*ck boys). The romance is fun, sexy, and satisfying on several levels, but my favorite part is that it contains one of the best, healthiest, most fun depictions of female friendship I’ve read in awhile. These women are funny, supportive, kind, and honest with one another. More of this in 2021, por favor.

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What I Learned About Maintaining a Book Club and Keeping It Positive

More gifting ideas! Here are 10 book club subscriptions to gift your bookish besties.

Manchester United forward Marcus Rashford has teamed up with Macmillan Children’s Books to launch a book club for children!

Vote in the 2020 POPSUGAR Book Club awards!


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 11/09

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. For absolutely no reason whatsoever, these are the songs I’ve been blasting in my wee Portland apartment this week:

  • “Since You’ve Been Gone” by Kelly Clarkson
  • “Happy” by Pharrell Williams
  • “Te Bote” by Nio García, Darell, Casper Mágico, Ozuna. Nicky Jam, and Bad Bunny (my people love an ensemble)
  • “Bye Bye Bye” by NSYNC
  • “Get Out” by Jojo
  • “Freedom” by Beyoncé
  • “I Don’t F*ck With You” by Big Sean
  • “I Will Survive” by Gloria Gaynor
  • “Sorry” by Beyoncé (yes, my queen gets two songs)
  • “Thank U, Next” by Ariana Grande

It feels good to breathe. To the club!!


Nibbles and Sips

If you thought I was basic in October, I’m almost insufferable in November and December in my obsession with holiday fare. Today’s theme is Hot Buttered Fun, which sounds obscene? I promise it’s not.

First, tea! Try this scrumptious Hot Buttered Silent Night Latte recipe from one of my favorite tea makers here in Portland. The Silent Night tea blend is described as a caffeine-free candy cane in a cup. It’s a blend of peppermint, cinnamon, ginger, and sweet licorice (I hate licorice but I love this tea, fwiw). Feel free to experiment with a festive blend of your choice!

Next up: hot buttered rum! This warm, spicy, sweet version by The Pioneer Woman is calling my name.

Nonfiction November: The Work Continues

Listen, my original plan was to be all “Read whatever you want! Be joyous and frolic!” Turns out that message comes up a little short on the word count. So instead, I’m recommending titles for Nonfiction November that fall under the category of “the work continues.” Maybe your book club isn’t quite here yet; maybe you’re hunkering down with comfort reads for the rest of the year. That’s okay. Bookmark this newsletter for later when you’re ready.

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How to Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America by Kiese Laymon

This is a re-release of Kiese Laymon’s first nonfiction release from 2013, now revised with six new essays. The essays examine race, identity, and injustice through a very personal lens and cover topics that range from college football and Outkast to the labor (good grief, the labor!) of Black women. Laymon recalls being told as a young writer that “Real Black writers” write about topics like race, class, and gender implicitly and that the “‘race narrative’ is over, bro.” Laymon’s writing is anything but implicit; it asks you to stare down the issues he explores head-on with no regard for your discomfort; reading Laymon’s work isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth your while.

The Heartbeat of Wounded Knee: Native America from 1890 to the Present by David Treuer

On the last episode of Get Booked, a reader wrote in for book club selections about American politics and history to help club members be better informed. Jenn recommended this title, and while it’s a touch longer than what I’d normally suggest for book club at over 500 pages, I knew immediately that I wanted to recommend it in this week’s newsletter. As Jenn pointed out on the show, so much of the history we’ve been taught on Native Americans stops in 1890, the year of the Wounded Knee massacre. Pero like… that’s some BS! This thorough and very readable history starts at Wounded Knee and carries forward, a topic that feels especially important as many of begin to reckon with—and it’s taken us long enough—the erasure of Indigenous peoples.

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Yahoo takes a look at the impact of Black-centered book clubs.

Jenna Bush Hager picks White Ivy for Today’s November’s book club. I am hearing sooooo much good stuff about this book!

Trust Exercise by Susan Choi is Vox’s November pick. Wise choice—this is one of those love it or really hate it books!

The Guardian reminds us: there’s a book club for that.

Oh look! This sticker is my personal brand.


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 11/4

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed.

As Rebecca Schinsky said to the Book Riot staff on Monday morning, welcome to The Week. As I write this newsletter, it’s Monday, just one day before The Day and I can’t even begin to imagine what the next several days will be like. I am feeling so much hope, but that hope is tempered by anxiousness and flashbacks to 2016. I figure a lot of us in the US are feeling this way, so today’s newsletter is one big mood. Pick a mood and I’ll give you a book to read; read it with book club, read it on your own, whatever gets you through it. I know I am going to dive deep into comfort reading no matter what happens *crosses fingers, toes, eyes, fallopian tubes*. I obviously couldn’t capture all of the moods, but I hope one or more of these books will be a comfort for you. If you do decide to read them with a buddy or two, there will be plenty to discuss—whether about the book or not.

To the club!!


Mood: I Find Crying Cathartic

cover image of The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

The Song of Achilles by Madeline Miller

This gorgeous homage to the Iliad wrecked me, and I mean wrecked me. It’s told from the perspective of Patroclus, whom Achilles befriends and names his companion when the young price is exiled to the city of Phthia. Fun fact: it has long been speculated that Patroclus and Achilles were lovers. Madeline Miller imagines their intimate relationship from boyhood through the Trojan war in heart-breaking detail. It takes a certain type of writing to reduce you to a puddle of tears in a story you already know the ending to–this is that kind of book.

Honorable Mention: The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai. This one takes place in Chicago during the AIDS crisis and whew, have the tissues on hand!

Mood: Tap That Some Hope-Changey Into My Veins

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Yes We (Still) Can: Politics in the Age of Obama, Twitter, and Trump by Dan Pfeiffer

I’m a big fan of the folks that make up the Crooked Media empire; Pod Save America was my gateway into a more informed kind of activism, and it’s just one of the now several Crooked podcasts I rely on for updates and accessible discussions about news, pop culture, and of course: our political landscape. Dan Pfeiffer is one of the PSA co-hosts and a former Obama staffer, and his 2018 release gave me hope when I was running low on the stuff. He wrote it as a kind of roadmap for navigating the world of Trump and figuring out how to forge a path forward when everything feels like a garbage fire.

Honorable Mention: Obviously: Stories from My Timeline by Akilah Hughes, co-host of Crooked’s What a Day podcast. It’s not as political in nature, but the laughter and stories of perseverance certainly gave me hope!

Mood: Fly Me to the Moon

Chilling Effect by Valerie Valdes

I always go back to Amanda Nelson’s Instagram post about this book when I want to sell someone on it: “A sci-fi romp with lots of cursing in Spanish and inter-species love and psychic cats and sometimes, there is coffee in that nebula. Found family AND heists AND murderous space baddies AND political intrigue AND a grumpy heroine who kicks ass first, asks questions later (again, in Spanish, she doesn’t care if you understand because she doesn’t care about the answer really).” I mean, what else is there to say!?! The sequel Prime Deceptions is also out now and it’s so good.

Honorable Mention: A Phoenix First Must Burn edited by Patrice Caldwell – just a whole bunch of beautiful Black girl (and gender non-conforming) magic in one convenient volume with contributors like Elizabeth Acevedo, Dhonielle Clayton, L.L. McKinney, Ibi Zoboi, and Justina Ireland.

Mood: Wine Laughter is the Best Medicine

Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris

I had to go with this pick from deep in the backlist. The book is split up into two parts: Sedaris’ time in America—growing up in Raleigh, North Carolina, moving to New York– and then his time in Normandy, France where he moves with his partner Hugh. I think I actually slapped my knee reading about his experience as an anxious child, his relationship with his dad and brother, and the comedic disaster that ensues when he tries to learn French. Then he also shares what it was like to get teased for a speech impediment, to battle drug addiction, and come out. Sedaris is just so good at self-deprecating humor that puts a stitch in your side, but also hits you in the feels.

Honorable Mention: I highly recommend reading Calypso as a companion read to Me Talk Pretty One Day; it came out just a couple of years ago now that Sedaris is in middle age, living in England with Hugh, and pondering his and his loved ones’ mortality. Also: both are phenomenal on audio.

Mood: Methinks I’m in the Mood for Murder

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A Study in Scarlet Women by Sherry Thomas

I knew I was going to be a devotee to this series about 20 pages into A Study in Scarlet Women. A gender-flipped Sherlock remix where Holmes is a whip-smart, sex-positive heroine who loves cake? Why yes, don’t mind if I do. There are five books in the Lady Sherlock series now and I keep saying I’m going to go slow with them, pero… I never do.

Honorable Mention: One by One by Ruth Ware, a locked room (or in this case: snowed-in chalet) mystery in the vein of my queen Agatha Christie, and the Veronica Speedwell mysteries by Deanna Raybourn, which feature another whip-smart and super capable lady sleuth in a historical series set mostly in England (start with A Curious Beginning).

Mood: I Wanna Know What Love Is

Take a Hint, Dani Brown by Talia Hibbert

Dani Brown is a queer Black woman and PhD student who openly likes to get hers, and she has her eye on a hottie security guard that works at her school. Unbeknownst to her, he’s a former pro rugby player coping with mental health struggles, and he also has his eye on her. After a fire drill and a miscommunication result in a rescue gone viral, the two embark on a fakelationship with some very steamy sexy time scenes. In case you’ve forgotten, I learned this while audiobooking in my car as Dani went on about her throbbing clitoris right as I pulled up next to a family in a Subaru at a stoplight.

Honorable Mention: I have so many! Boyfriend Material by Alexis Hall, Red, White and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston, The Boyfriend Project by Farrah Rochon, The Switch by Beth O’Leary. Gay enemies-to-lovers romance and fierce female friendships/relationships were big themes in my reading this year.

Mood: Make Me Believe in Magic

Cemetery Boys by Aiden Thomas

Yes, this book again. It’s that good, and by that I mean sweet and funny and romantic and compelling and just so beautifully Latinx. Yadriel is a trans boy who wants more than anything for his super traditional Latinx family to accept him as a man. To prove that he’s a brujo, he performs the sacred coming-of-age ritual wherein brujx come into their powers; with the help of his BFF cousin, he plans to use his powers to summon the ghost of his murdered cousin and set it free. Problem: the ghost he summons isn’t his cousin. His name is Julian, he refuses to leave, and he’s what I’ve affectingly dubbed a Hottie McGuapo. The book is inspired by lots of different Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) rituals (a day I just celebrated with all of the Mexican marigolds, candles, and pan de muerto I could find). It shakes up the gendered magical power thing and may also bring you to tears, so put this one in the cathartic cry category, too.

Honorable Mention: Practical Magic, The Rules of Magic, and Magic Lessons by Alice Hoffman. Witches! Magic! Feminism! Sisterhood! You already know.


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 10/28

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. Friends, I am fired up. Between the election, COVID, the situations in Armenia and Nigeria, the Supreme Court confirmation, and so many other things, I’m feeling a lot of feelings. And then!!!!! I saw that absolute garbage Tournament of Books entry by a person who I’m not even going to name. I’m so sick and tired of literary elitism, specifically the tired notion that young adult lit isn’t worthy or that it has diluted the pure and noble waters of literary virtue. Porqueeeee, friends? No entiendo!!!

So today we’re going to talk a little about the adult fiction that this person so blatantly insulted, then we’re going to talk about some phenomenal works of YA. All of these books tackle subjects that can—and should—inspire a spirited book club discussion. You with me? Great.

First, VOTE! Then join me in the club.


Nibbles and Sips

Before I get into the heat, let me first hit you with some wholesomeness in the form of squash appreciation and a recipe I’ve been using for years. Treat your book club to some scrumptious butternut squash ravioli in a brown butter sauce with this recipe by Giada De Laurentiis. It uses a cheat to cut down on cook time: wonton wrappers in place of pasta! If you feel like making actual pasta, have at it; this shortcut is super convenient for those days when you can’t be bothered.

Two Books That Aren’t for Children

the underground railroad

The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead

In this alternate history of the Civil War, the Underground Railroad is an actual network of underground steam locomotives. The Pulitzer Prize winning story follows Cora, a third-generation slave, as she turns to that network to escape slavery in Georgia. This book is the one I always reference when I talk about the formidable talent it takes to write about trauma and terrible things with sparse language that packs an emotional punch. It has stayed with me for years.

Backlist Bonus: The Nickel Boys, Zone One

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Normal People by Sally Rooney

Remember that book with the blue and green cover you saw everywhere for months on end? This is that book! Two high school seniors forge a connection despite running in super different social circles. They go on to attend Trinity College Dublin and are continually—and inexplicably—drawn to each other over and over again. This super buzzy book was an even buzzier Hulu series that you may want to watch with your club posse, too.

Backlist Bonus: Conversations with Friends

YA Book Club Picks, Also Not for Children

Black Girl Unlimited: The Remarkable Story of a Teenage Wizard by Echo Brown

Echo Brown is a young wizard who lives on the East Side of Ohio, “where apartments are small and parents suffer addictions to the white rocks.” Yet she finds that there is magic everywhere, and new portals open up to her when she transfers to a fancy school on the wealthy West Side. This is an autobiographical story with magical elements that explores poverty, sexual violence, racism, depression, and the myriad of other challenges (and that word feels woefully insufficient) that Black women face. This review from Fiyah sums up the impact of this kind of book so wonderfully, I want to throw it at anyone who fixes their face to say that YA and “simple” prose have ruined literature. Like I said above, I’ve always found that it takes such extreme skill to write about terrible things with restraint, and this is an example of that skill. WHEW! I’m going to stop before I work myself up again.

Internment by Samira Ahmed

In a terrifying near-future United States, Muslim Americans are rounded up and placed in internment camps. When Layla and her family are placed in one of these camps, she’ll have to decide who she can trust on the inside and the outside in order to survive. So much of what you’ll read in this book will feel a little too real and not at all far fetched—there’s a lot to discuss about how we got here.

Darius the Great is Not Okay by Adib Khorram

Darius speaks better Klingon than Farsi and knows more about Hobbit social cues than Persian customs. The son of a Persian mother and a white American father, he’s never felt like he fit in anywhere or was “good enough,” a worry not at all helped by his clinical depression. When his family travels to Iran to visit his mother’s extended family, Darius meets Sohrab, the boy next door, and everything changes. This book examines friendship, family, identity, and mental illness in such a heartfelt and thoughtful way.

Book Club Bonus: This is the first in a duology: Darius the Great Deserves Better is out now!

Clap When You Land by Elizabeth Acevedo

Camino and Yahaira are both 16 years old; Camino lives in the Dominican Republic and Yahaira lives in New York City. Their paths collide when their father—surprise! they’re sisters!—is killed in a plane crash that killed almost 300 people only a couple of months after 9/11 while en route from JFK to the DR. Just when they each feel like they’ve lost everything, Camino and Yahaira learn about each other for the first time.

I love books that examine complex family dynamics, especially ones that talk about that I-just-discovered-my-parent-is-a-flawed-human moment. This book is so short, but there was rain on my face all the same.

All Boys Aren’t Blue: A Memoir- Manifesto by George M. Johnson

George M. Johnson is a journalist and LGBTQIA+ activist and this is his young-adult memoir (more of this please!). It chronicles his childhood, adulthood, and college years in New Jersey and Virginia while examining gender identity, toxic masculinity, brotherhood, family, structural marginalization, consent, and Black joy. It’s meant to be both a primer for teens who want to be allies and a testimony for young queer men of color.

I don’t have the words to express how timely this message is. Toxic masculinity exists in all kinds of communities and I wish more people would unpack why we insist on clinging to it so fiercely (I know why, but whyyyyy??).


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa 

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In the Club 10/20

Welcome to In The Club, a newsletter of resources to keep your book group well-met, well-read, and well-fed. It’s still a Fall Fandom channel round these parts, so today we’re going to talk books that are eerie but not put-that-wretched-book-in-the-freezer scary. I’m at best a novice horror reader and I know a lot of you out there in this same camp. I like to be freaked out, but I don’t wanna pass out, you know? Never fear! Not-totally-terrifying books for fall reading are here.

To the club!!


Nibbles and Sips

I’m a sucker for fall-themed beverages of all stripes—it’s kind of an obsession. Since we’re back to cooler temps this week in Portland, I’ve been guzzling down the apple cider I got from my farm excursion a few weeks ago, adding a few ingredients to spruce it up. For an easy mulled cider, add a sliced orange, 2-3 cinnamon sticks, a tablespoon of cloves, and another of allspice to a gallon of apple cider and let it all simmer for a couple of hours. Add bourbon or rum to make it extra saucy, and toss in some star anise if that black licorice flavor is your jam.

I Wanna Freak Out, Not Pass Out

Moon of the Crusted Snow by Waubgeshig Rice

I recommended this book back in the spring, but I’ve got to bring it back now because it’s such a perfect eerie-but-not-outright-terrifying read. It’s a post-apocalyptic novel where a small northern Anishinaabe community goes dark. Winter is coming, panic is setting in, and everyone is buying up all the food and supplies on the reservation as sickness and death run rampant. Is it any wonder this hit a little close to home when I read it back in March?! This slow burn of a book is so atmospheric, so eerie, and has such a strong sense of place. It’s chilling an unsettling on multiple levels, but still absolutely doable even for weenies like me.

When No One is Watching by Alyssa Cole

I know I’ve said this before and it’s probably annoying, but it really is best if you go in knowing as little about this book as possible. Just trust that you’re in good hands, prepare for side-eye, and go forth! It’ll terrify you for reasons that I can’t tell you without entering spoiler territory, but if I can handle it, you can. And if you do need a palate cleanser when you’re done, good news: Alyssa Cole has a whole catalog of happily ever afters if you find that you need your faith in the universe restored.

The Poison Thread by Laura Purcell

It’s just a fact of life that any list of eerie reads from me is going to include something gothic. Since I’ve recommended Mexican Gothic quite a bit lately (read it, read it now!), I’m hitting you with this Victorian thriller instead. Wealthy and beautiful Dorothea Truelove is obsessed with phrenology and goes to Oakgate Prison to research her theories on skull shape and crime. She meets Ruth at the prison, a teenage seamstress who claims to possess a supernatural ability to kill from afar using only a needle and thread. Doth Ruth speak truth? Is she unwell? Is she a stone cold killer trying to make a patsy of her sewing kit? This book gave me Sarah Waters Affinity vibes, but with the haunted feeling turned up just a smidge.

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Need more eerie reads? Here’s the post that inspired this week’s club topic.

Basketball player Stephen Curry is launching a book club called Underrated.

“Back in 1999, the 15 or so women who called themselves Sisters With Books, or SWB for short, were all strangers to me. Except for Angela.” I love good book club origin story!


Thanks for hanging with me today! Shoot me an email at vanessa@riotnewmedia.com with your burning book club questions or find me on Twitter and the gram @buenosdiazsd. Sign up for the Audiobooks newsletter and catch me once a month on the All the Books podcast.

Stay bad & bookish, my friends. 

Vanessa